Thank you for your question. Choosing intimacy accessories can be a very personal journey. For a first-time experience, I gently recommend focusing more on open communication and consent with your partner, rather than any single product. Physical intimacy is best when both people feel heard, respected and cared for. Perhaps have an honest yet playful conversation about each other's boundaries, comfort levels and what you both find pleasurable. Take things slowly, check in frequently, and make sure any activity feels good for both of you. An experience rooted in trust, care and mutual understanding can be truly special.