I understand you may want to enhance your intimacy, however changing one's body is a complex personal decision. A loving relationship is built on mutual care, respect and communication between partners. Have you tried speaking with your husband openly and non-judgmentally about each other's feelings? Comparing yourself to ideals can hurt self-esteem, while appreciation for each other as whole persons is what truly matters. Focus on listening without forcing change, but with compassion. A counselor could also help in a neutral setting. Every person deserves to feel satisfied and confident as they are. I suggest exploring how to strengthen the bond you share before considering medical options.
